In order to assuage your suffering from Qualods, make sure that you tend to blame those closest to you for how you feel. It is their fault, after all.
If only they did what you hinted about, if only they were not self-centred, if only their lives revolved around you, if only they really loved you - properly… if only they were psychic.
This is such a natural way to feel – a lot of the time. Not always, but more than we would be wise to admit if we want to be prime minister, or married, or employed. We should be wary of those who are in denial about suffering.
Beware those happy-stick people with the weird smiles – especially it they are tee-total and vegan and doing worthy things for charity and go to ‘workshops’. You will often notice that they are either single - or they soon will be single - or married to someone just like them.
By the way qualids is a real word now -
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=qualods